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Discreet adult contact site, 18+ only

Features

Swingers Near Me is built to make meeting like-minded adults simple and comfortable. Here is everything you can do on the site, from creating your profile and searching by area to chatting with couples and singles near you, and what each membership level adds when you want to do more. Joining is free, and you choose how much to share.

18+ only. Discreet and consensual.

Three ways to join

  • Classic: free

    A full profile with photos and status updates, daily match suggestions, polls and quizzes, comments on articles and posts, free ID verification, activity badges, replies to VIP and VIP Plus members, and a limited number of messages a day.

  • VIP

    Everything in Classic, plus unlimited messaging, advanced search filters, members-only chat rooms, private group chats of up to 50 people, rewinding profiles you passed on, seeing everyone who likes you, and priority for your comments.

  • VIP Plus

    Everything in VIP, plus exclusive matches, priority placement for your messages and likes, and top position in daily match suggestions. Profile Boost and Super Match are optional paid extras.

Your profile

Your profile is your introduction. Add photos, write a few lines about yourself or as a couple, say who you would like to meet and what kind of connection you want. You can post status updates so people can see what you are up to, and earn activity badges as you take part.

ID verification is free and optional. Once you are verified you get a blue tick on your profile, which tells other members you are who you say you are.

Talking to people

Send messages to members you like, and reply to anyone who writes to you. Classic members can send a limited number of messages a day. VIP and VIP Plus members can message without limits, join members-only chat rooms and start private group chats of up to 50 people.

Join polls and quizzes, and comment on articles and on other members' posts. It is an easy way to start a conversation before you send a first message.

Finding people

Advanced search filters for VIP and VIP Plus members help you narrow down who you see. Daily match suggestions are open to everyone, and you can pass on a profile and change your mind later by rewinding it with VIP. VIP members can also see everyone who likes them.

How matching works

Every day you get match suggestions based on your age range and who you want to meet, how close people are, how recently they were active, what kind of connection they are after and shared interests. The suggestions open the door. The conversation is up to you.

Use it anywhere

Swingers Near Me works in your browser on a computer or a phone, and you can add it to your phone's home screen like an app.

Ready to create your profile?

Step 1 10% complete

Let us get your profile started.

First, who are you?

Choose the one that fits you.

Please choose one so we know who you are.

And who would you like to meet?

Choose what suits you. You can change your mind later.

Please choose one so we know who you would like to meet.

When were you born?

Please set the year to your own. You need to be 18 or over to join.

Please choose a full date of birth. You need to be 18 or over.

Last step. Your name and email.

Use a first name or nickname if you prefer. You will choose your password on the next screen.

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