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Safety

Consent and respect come first on Swingers Near Me. This page explains the protections built into the site, such as how you control who can contact you, and the sensible habits that help you stay safe when you chat online and when you decide to meet in person. Read it before you start, and come back to it whenever you need a reminder.

18+ only. Discreet and consensual.

Know who you are talking to

  • Optional ID verification

    Verify your identity with a visible blue tick badge. It is optional and free.

  • Video verification

    A live video check with a moderator confirms you are real without sending any documents.

  • Age checks

    Age is estimated automatically, with further checks where the law requires them.

Stay private and in control

  • Safe usernames

    Your real name and email are never shown publicly.

  • Location privacy

    Other members see your nearest town or city, never your address or live location.

  • Instant blocking

    Block anyone straight away so they can no longer contact you or see you.

  • Easy reporting

    Report a member or content quickly from inside the site.

Community trust

  • Member ratings

    Every member has a reputation score based on behaviour and feedback.

  • One click feedback

    Give an interaction a thumbs up or thumbs down in a single click.

  • Off site contact alerts

    You are alerted when someone tries to move a chat to another app.

Active protection

  • Behaviour monitoring

    Automatic monitoring picks up unusual or suspicious activity.

  • Content moderation

    Images, videos and text are screened when uploaded, using AI and human review.

  • Swift takedowns

    Requests to remove unauthorised or harmful content get a rapid response.

  • Blurred sensitive images

    Potentially sensitive images are blurred with a warning before you view them.

Support and standards

  • Human support

    Real people are available 24 hours a day by chat and messaging.

  • Safe dating guidance

    Tips and reminders are built into the site.

  • Secure systems

    The site runs on PCI-compliant cloud infrastructure with full SSL encryption.

  • Industry standards

    We follow best practice through our involvement with the Online Dating and Discovery Association.

Looking after yourself

Take your time and chat first. Keep personal details such as your address or workplace private until you trust someone. Agree what you are all comfortable with before you meet, and remember anyone can say no at any time. Meet somewhere you feel safe and tell a friend your plans.

Consent comes first

Everything on this site is built on consent. A yes has to be clear and freely given, and it can be withdrawn at any moment. Silence, hesitation or going quiet is never a yes, and nobody owes anyone an explanation for saying no.

Treat every member the way you would like to be treated. Be polite, accept a no with a smile and never pressure anyone to share photos, personal details or a meeting.

If something does not feel right

Trust your instincts. If a conversation makes you uncomfortable, block the member straight away so they can no longer contact you. Then use the reporting tools to tell us what happened, so it can be looked at.

Be careful if someone asks you to move to another app very quickly, asks for money, or will not verify who they are. You are always free to slow down, ask questions or walk away.

Ready to create your profile?

Step 1 10% complete

Let us get your profile started.

First, who are you?

Choose the one that fits you.

Please choose one so we know who you are.

And who would you like to meet?

Choose what suits you. You can change your mind later.

Please choose one so we know who you would like to meet.

When were you born?

Please set the year to your own. You need to be 18 or over to join.

Please choose a full date of birth. You need to be 18 or over.

Last step. Your name and email.

Use a first name or nickname if you prefer. You will choose your password on the next screen.

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    We need this ticked before we can set up your profile.

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